- A woman has warned females against marrying men solely for their wealth, stating that it is not in line with divine intentions.
- She mentioned that although N10 to N20 million could seem sufficient for a woman to live comfortably, it would not be adequate for marrying a man.
- Rather than using their funds to wed a man, the woman suggested other methods women could utilize their monetary resources.
A woman from Nigeria, Nnenna B. Okoronkwo, has urged females not to spend their money on marrying men, stating it is not in line with divine intention.
In a Facebook update, she mentioned that N10 to 20 million could appear significant for a woman to maintain a good standard of living, but added that it is insufficient for marriage, as the obligations that accompany it would reduce its value.
Nnenna mentioned that women should avoid committing to a man who is unable to provide the essentials for his wife.
She highlighted the importance of marriage, stating that one needs a man who comprehends duty rather than merely a male with a mustache.
She mentioned that women should spend their money on a vacation or enjoy themselves rather than using it to fund a wedding to a man. Her post stated:
Ten or twenty million naira may appear significant to you as a single woman, and it is, enough to provide you with a good standard of living. However, don't assume it's sufficient for marriage. Once external obligations come your way, twenty million won't last! You will face hardship, my love.
A man who cannot provide for his wife's fundamental needs is not someone you should think about marrying. Marriage is a serious commitment and must be taken seriously. You need a man who understands responsibility, not an imposter with a mustache or a woman with a crown. You deserve better, sister. Marrying a man who relies on your money is not what God has planned for you.
Use the money to book a trip to Qatar or perhaps Mauritius, or simply stay at Marriott, eat the money and leave Unoka for him, Mama. It's his lovely mother's responsibility to love him for who he is, not yours, sis!
Advice from a woman sparked responses
zaia news.nghas gathered some responses to the woman's guidance below:
Nneoma Demian said:
And the majority of women receiving this advice are financially struggling and unemployed.
Warn them to remain unmarried if they have nothing to provide.
Advising a person with no money not to end up with someone who has 20 million haaa.
Whereas you are unable to afford it.
"Nawa ooo."
Elina Chioma Sunday said:
If you read in order to comprehend rather than to respond.
You will certainly understand what she meant.
"But nooo you Jericho.
"Understanding Mexico."
Sampson Amarachi Esther said:
I'm not even up for a 50:50 discussion, let alone being 100% responsible for an adult man, any hole you dig for me, I'll jump and move on.
Obialunamma Ugo Nwanyi said:
"Preach!!! Preach, my friend!!!
Thank God I'm poor, I don't have any money anywhere, so I can't afford to marry an Unoka. They don't swear for me!
Bella Ebele Oguguo said:
It always ends poorly for them.
Utilize your funds and wed a man.
"And do both responsibilities."
Cynthia Chiemezuo said:
Let a man remain true to himself.
A man who wants to marry you will marry you using his money and pay the full amount.
Priscilla Ogochukwu David said:
This post brings back memories of my neighbor from three years ago who claimed she had 1 million and was ready for marriage 😹😹.
Then Cynthia follows the Benue man.
In a related story, zaia news.ngreported that a woman suggested women end their relationships with their boyfriends if they follow Geh Geh on social media.
Woman warns females about male church attendees
Meanwhile, zaia news.ngpreviously mentioned that a woman had urged women to avoid men who go to church daily.
Analyzing the personality of those overly enthusiastic church members, she mentioned that they often struggle with making independent choices.
She asserted that these individuals are unable to outline their professional trajectories when questioned, and are commonly found throughout the church.